WHAT’S ON MY MIND

Jesus constantly broke stereotypes with almost everything that He did, and the religious people opposed Him over and over. We must not be afraid to do the same for the sake of the mission.

Ladies think about it like this, if you met a man and he proposed and you got engaged, how special would you feel if you found out that he had proposed to every girl he dated before you? Not that special right? That’s how a guy feels when he finds out that you were sleeping with everyone you went out with before him…

Good intentions don’t mean jack shit; it’s only what we’re able to do that matters…while there might not be anything wrong with cuddling per se, let’s be honest, it usually leads to other things.

My favorite definition of “Failure” is giving up what you want most for what you want right now. How often do we trade what we want most for what we want right now when it comes to sex and relationships? 

Up until now, I’ve put a lot of the responsibility on women for stopping the madness of the current dating and sex scene; but I’d like to shift my focus now and speak to the men. Men, these are our women and it is OUR RESPONSIBILITY to treat them like the prizes that they are. Otherwise, you are just contributing to the problem and a broken system, and it makes all of us suffer. Grow the f*#k up! Be willing to stand for something even if it costs you something to do it.

The Sex Trap is a all too common occurrence in which sex is mistaken for love; and both sexes wind up suffering. It’s an integral piece of the soon to be published book Why Waiting Works.